I’m no longer against Divorce!

These days, I have been confronted with facts of people’s lives and realities that make me question my position on divorce. If you asked me 5 years ago about my views on marriage, separation and divorce, I would have, without batting an eyelid, concluded thus: (a) divorce is a no-no; (b) separation is understandable in exceptionally restricted and difficult circumstances. …

What’s all the fuss about submission in marriage?!

Hey people! Good morning. Current situation: It is 6:07 am and I am typing away as I sit on my bed. O is re-ironing his shirt in the laundry room because it just never stays well-ironed. I have packed lunch and I am dangerously at risk of not leaving the house before 6:20! But I just have to let this …

Restoration!

Hi all!!! It has been a really long while. I trust we are all well. I gave this post a positive title because I feel like the phoenix who has sprung forth from the ashes. 2016 was a year of test for me and as part of my Restoration series, I shall be sharing with you how I was able …

Planned Romance…

Hi people! Howdy! Thanks for your comments and email. I hope I was able to address concerns appropriately. My knowledge is limited so I ask that we all commit all our struggles to God as He knows exactly what we should do. *** Today‚Äôs topic is something I never really gave any thought to as a single person. I had …

#SayNoToRape!

  Hi guys, I was going to add this to my previous post as a ‘before I leave’ however, upon reflection I have decided that this is deserving of its very own post. I left the office yesterday at about 8:15pm and tuned in to the Table of Men on 96.9 Cool FM. The topics were ‘what are the flimsiest …

Don’t marry that man!

It has been raining for over 40 minutes…Well not actual rain, yet not drizzles. Somewhere in between. Segilola lit a cigarette, what she considered to be her only vice since it was harming her health. She is a doctor and she knows what is good for her but she just would not do it. She took a slow, long drag …

Pregnancy Chronicles 1: How I got pregnant

LOL! More like “Pregnancy Chronicles” not HOW it happened… *tongue out* I got married in April and saw those twin lines on Sunday the 1st of June. I still remember exactly how I felt. Thank God, I’m not barren and will not have any problems conceiving. All of my teenage years were filled with trepidation over conception and birth. I …

The Cake or the Icing…

Hi people!!! How are you? There is so so much to report and I shall do so in the following weeks. You will find a little update in the last paragraph!!! Now to the day’s post: I have found myself in a position where people feel the need to ask me for advice on relationships and marriage. Im no expert …